Most people generally make New Year Resolutions to help them have a plan, a goal and a target for the year. Making plans for the coming year is a sure way to start the year right. Unfortunately some people have decided not to have any plans for the New Year because their previous plans were not attained. Others prefer to take each day as it comes and allow God to be in control. Obviously failing to plan is planning to fail. A recipe for failure in life is a purposeless, plan-less and goalless life. Anything goes and anything comes is the way for the lazy and procrastinating person. Anyone hoping to live to fulfill life and destiny should be conscious about having a template or life’s purpose to guide them.
“Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it?” (Luke 14:28)
Conversely, a haphazardly prepared New Year Resolutions in itself is also a recipe for failure. You cannot put random ideas together and without any plan expect them to work for you. In fact, even Jesus, being aware of the essence of well-defined plans, advised His followers this way: “Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it?” (Luke 14:28). Jesus admonishes that planning is very necessary for every endeavour in life. The one who decides to build a tower should first sit down and make a detailed estimation of how much it cost to complete it. This estimate will include all the initial activities related to the tower, the time needed to complete it and the financial obligations needed to fulfill this project. Without the project plan, the builder of the tower might spend time and resources without knowing how much is really needed. This is also a recipe for abandoned projects.
Our New Year Resolutions should be well-defined and well-thought-out to meet our needs, goals and objectives. Imagine I suddenly write in my New Year Resolutions that I want to be the Prime Minister of Canada in the coming year. This is not just outrageous for me but also unrealistic at all angles considering many things together. However, a resolution to take 2 or 3 developmental courses in Human Resources Management might be the right approach should I consider a career change in the coming year. Thus, our Resolutions should be backed by our life’s goals and purpose. It will be a waste of time and resources to start something we know we cannot complete. Even the desire to be consistent with our spiritual growth shouldn’t be made without knowing our current spiritual needs. When we understand what we really need to grow spiritually, we make plans to help with those areas.
A New Year’s Resolution should be doable and attainable. As we are in the wee hours to the year’s ending, take a day or two and prayerfully consider what you really need for the coming year. Have them documented and match these things to your life’s purpose. Remember, every Resolution comes with commitment. Consider if you are able to keep up with the commitment involved. If you cannot keep up with it, don’t document it. Personally, a resolution I made prior to the end of 2022 was to write a Bible-based blog post each day from Monday to Friday in 2022 and 2023. The latter part of 2022 and the beginning of 2023 were very difficult moments in my family. In my lowest moments, I still sat down and wrote blog posts. To me, that was the cost I had to bear in my commitment to be consistent.
Before you call it your Resolution, know that it needs consistency and commitment to achieve it. If you cannot commit to it, don’t even start. Count the cost, know your strengths and your goals before you begin. May the Lord help us even as we commit to our Resolutions.
Have a blessed New Year!